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Monica had at least 3 children the oldest, Augustine, is the most famous. At the time of his father’s death, Augustine was 17 and a rhetoric student in Carthage.
Monica was distressed to learn that her son had accepted the Manichean heresy - ”all flesh is evil” - and was living an immoral life. Then one night she had a vision that assured her Augustine would return to the faith.
When he was 29, Augustine decided to go to Rome to teach rhetoric but Monica was determined to go along. One night he told her that he was going to the dock to say goodbye to a friend. Instead he set sail for Rome. Monica was heartbroken when she learned of Augustine’s trick, but she still followed him, arriving in Rome to find that he had left for Milan, so Monica pursued him to Milan.
In Milan, Augustine came under the influence of the bishop, St. Ambrose, who also became Monica’s spiritual director. She continued her prayers for Augustine during his years of instruction until Easter 387 St. Ambrose baptized Augustine.
Although no one else was aware of it, Monica knew her life was near its end. She told Augustine, “Son, nothing in this world now affords me delight. I do not know what there is now left for me to do or why I am still here, all my hopes in this world being now fulfilled.” She became ill shortly after and suffered for nine days before her death.