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Yet there’s another way to look at this scene. If you or anyone you know has been seriously or chronically sick, injured, or disabled, you may recognize the feeling of humility of not being able to help one’s self and needing to rely on others for basic care. Being dependent on others can easily wound people’s pride and make them question their self-worth. For some people, it leads to despair that they aren’t “contributing” to the family or society and they may feel like they are a burden, even questioning why they are alive.
We don’t know how long Simon’s mother-in-law was sick or what exactly her illness was, but perhaps after she was healed she took great pride and satisfaction in being able to do something for others again. Maybe she wasn’t going about her service just because it was her duty as a woman in that culture to serve the men. It could have been her genuine, thankful response for what Jesus did for her. In other words, she may have been happy to go back to work.
The next morning, after all Jesus’ healing work with so many who were sick or possessed by demons, he must have been exhausted, but he still gets up early to go off by himself to pray. His time alone might have been shortlived because the apostles found him and they headed off to other villages to continue his work.
Questions of the week
Have you had the experience of being sick or injured and having to rely on others to do things for you that you wish you could do for yourself? What is it like?
Jesus gives us a great example of self-care in this passage when he goes away by himself to pray after a particularly busy day. When you find yourself especially busy or stressed, what do you do or what would you like to do to take care of yourself and get re-connected with God’s strength?