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It is easy for us to get defensive or upset about being asked to love Jesus more than our parents or our children. Yet what Jesus was asking wasn’t a new teaching in his tradition, a tradition which emphasized that one must follow God before one’s parents. We should be clear that Jesus is not telling us it is wrong to love our family or that we should love them less than we do.
What he is saying is that sometimes following him will create conflict within our families. We should expect resistance and even breaks in some relationships if we are faithful to what Jesus is asking of us. In those times, we will lose the life as we know it to be faithful to him.
Still today, it is not unusual for there to be family conflict when one person begins to deepen in his or her faith commitment while others around them don’t. Ask any parish RCIA catechist, and they can tell you stories of how painful it is for catechumens to become Catholic when their family disagrees or even disowns them for their faith in Jesus. Yet all of them who go through with it do so because they believe they are “finding” new life despite losing their old life.
Questions of the week
Has your faith ever caused disagreements or conflicts with loved ones?
Share about something you have “lost” in your life because of your faith, and also about how your faith has helped you to find new life.