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It is an invitation for a mature follower. Just as we need to spell out many simple rules to help younger children understand right from wrong, with “younger” disciples more rules or “commandments” are helpful. Feed the hungry. Clothe the naked. Pray for your enemies. Forgive those who have hurt you.
There is nothing wrong with following a list of religious commandments as we learn how to be faithful disciples. At a certain point, though, our faith needs to mature to take into account more complex situations - the grey areas between the black-and-white, or simple right and wrong. Jesus is asking us to go beyond what the rules say and commands us to respond in love to everyone, just as he did.
Jesus gives us a lot of respect here, insisting that we are his friends, not his students, his servants, or his slaves, when we love one another as he does. Often Christians fall into the habit of relating to God or Jesus as a child to a parent, but Jesus suggests a more equal relationship. God will always be God, and we will always be human, but Jesus still invites us to be in friendship with him.
Questions of the week
Think of a situation in which the difference between right and wrong might be blurred but you are asked to respond with love rather than holding strictly to what a law or commandment says. How does it challenge you to be more Christ-like?
Have you ever thought of yourself as being friends with Jesus? How so? If not, what is your reaction to this invitation?