Next Sunday (21st) we will be celebrating our annual Carol Service in the church at 18.00 where we will have the opportunity to join together singing our most loved seasonal carols. Afterwards there will be a Parish Social in the Parish Centre serving mulled wine and mince pies.

We know very little about Jesus’ earthly father, Joseph. From these few verses, we see a picture of a sensitive man of great integrity who was willing to change direction in trust when given guidance from God. Just as Mary was asked to take a tremendous leap of faith in saying yes to bearing Jesus, Joseph also was asked to trust in a situation that didn’t make rational sense. According to Jewish tradition, Mary and Joseph were legally married although they were still in their “engagement period.” We can imagine his great inner turmoil upon discovering Mary was pregnant but not through him. It would have been a great shame to Joseph, personally and culturally. Legally, he was permitted to have her stoned to death, but he chose the more compassionate route, deciding to divorce her quietly rather than have her publicly humiliated and killed. That way, she would be able to return to the protection of her family to raise the child.  A dream changed everything. Without any guarantees that what he dreamed was real or trustworthy, Joseph woke up and followed the angel’s instructions. Then three other times in Jesus’ early life Joseph did what he was commanded in a dream, taking Jesus to Egypt to escape Herod and settling in the town of Nazareth to raise him. In doing so, he saved Jesus’ life. It took both him and Mary working together and being open to unimagined directions to bring Jesus safely to adulthood. Questions of the week  Share a story of a parent you know having the courage to do something that seemed crazy, counter-cultural, or just plain different, but proved to be for the best of his/her child.  Have you had any experiences of receiving directions or guidance from God that made you change course and do something different than what you had planned? How did you know to trust it?

The musings of one of God’s smallest creatures on events in and around the Parish over the past seven days . . . . Busy times around The Presbytery as things get into full swing ready for the coming feasts and celebrations . . . . . On Sunday afternoon the third of our celebrations of Advent Evening Prayer and Benediction took place; a chance for participants to step out from the secular rush of preparations in order to spend some quiet time with the Lord in prayer. Monday evening and Fr D was at St Peter’s School, Leatherhead meeting with the ‘shadow’ Parish Leadership Team for the new, ‘bigger’ Parish. At this the team were able to look at some of the responses from the recent consultation. They were also able to begin finalising the running order of the meetings that will be taking place in each community between mid-January and mid-February. Following on from Morning Prayer, Mass, and Exposition on Tuesday morning Fr D was able to complete the preparations for the Advent Adult Reconciliation Service planned for Friday evening along with the community from Effingham and Fetcham. In the evening our singers and musicians were practicing for the Parish Advent Carol Service on Sunday (21 st ), whilst Fr D was off over to Epsom to help them with their Adult Advent Reconciliation Service. On Wednesday, after Morning Prayer and Mass, Fr D moved items of furniture (long stools, votive stands, Dona machines, side tables etc.) from the church floor ready for the arrival of the workman who was to apply a new protective coat to the church floor. This meant that the church was locked in order to allow the floor to dry out afterwards. Once the workman had finished Fr D completed most of the common parts of the newsletter for this week and next (trying to steal a march as time is likely to be sparse!). Thursday morning, after Morning Prayer and Mass, Fr D did not go down to the diocesan offices in Crawley as he would normally as his secretary had said that there were several off with flu at present and he did not want to run the risk of catching it before/over Christmas. This meant that he could continue the work he was doing on the newsletters and start work on the Prayers of Intercession as well.  After Morning Prayer and Mass on Friday Fr D was able to get the church ready for the Reconciliation Service in the Evening . . . . . . .